The Cost of Inaction

by Sam Witteveen on June 22, 2010 · 0 comments

The biggest cause of people not getting what they want in life doesn’t come from big dramatic failures. For most people its not that the business went bust because there was new competition or the I lost all my fortune because the stock market tanked.

For most people the biggest killer of their dreams is a silent evil ninja that sneaks up on you when you weren’t paying attention. The Ninja I am talking about is the simple fact of not taking the action that you know you should be taking and losing momentum because of it.

You’re right it ain’t easy!

Taking action is rarely easy. We create so many distractions and excuses for not doing it. We all can invent a million reasons why there is no time or why we should wait. The simple fact is that every time you are not taking action, you are slowly killing your dreams.
If you are waiting to take action for any reason, (especially if it sounds like logical for not taking action) then you are killing your dream. To many people think they need to wait to have a certain education or for their stars to be aligned in a certain way. No what you need to do is take some action right now.

Start Small.

Action doesn’t need to start with the biggest thing in the world. You need to condition yourself to take action over time. The best way to do this is start small and build the habit. Even the greatest projects and goals start with the first initial push and often thats the smallest of actions. Many cultures have sayings along the lines of “the journey of a 1000 miles starts with the first step”. Start the step.
Starting small but consistent actions builds momentum. Even an avalanche starts with the smallest snow flake and grows from there. Once you have built the momentum, keeping it going is far easier than having to start again.

Give yourself a time limit.

By giving your self a fixed black and white measure of what you need to do, you make it very easy to measure did you do it or not. I find one of the best ways to do this is with time. When you write down an action goal, you most certainly underestimate how long it will take you to do it.
For that reason, its better to write down that you will work on this action for a certain period of time. For most people the period of time that works best is somewhere in the range of 25-40 minutes.
As it sit here writing I know that I have 25 minutes to get my ideas down as succinctly and powerfully as possible. I can here the ticking of my Pomodoro timer on my Mac reminding me with ever second that that time is slipping away. But I at the end of the 25 minutes I will have a post and I will have created.
Using Seth Godin’s language I will have something to “ship”( go and read his book Linchpin if you haven’t already). There will be something made that will be going up on my blog. Admittedly I will need to run the spell check and clean it up with some editing, but I have already set aside another block of time later today just for that.

Measure

Its important to measure the action that you are taking.  By measuring the actions that you take it helps yourself to develop a momentum, where you can look back and realize how far you have come already.
Often just knowing how far you have come already gives you to motivation to keep going. Measuring also allows you later to see what worked and what didn’t, what areas were truly productive and what was perhaps a waste of time when it came to producing the results that you want.
You can measure simply by keeping a journal or a notebook and writing down what you did.

Set up the Environment to Win

Set up your environment so that you are able to take the action. As I am writing here, there is nothing that can distract me. Email Client is turned off, twitter is off and absolutely my phone is turned off. I am even using a piece of software which blacks out all of the screen except for what I am typing here, just to make sure I am not distracted by folders on my desktop.
The more you can eliminate distractions and create the environment for you to take action consistently, the more you get your long term goals

Conclusion

Over all there are 3 questions you should ask yourself:
1. What action have I been putting off that I know will get me closer to my dreams/goals?
2. What is the first step on that action that I could do right now (meaning in the next 10 minutes)?
3. How can I measure what I am getting done in relation to this?
Get to it now! Ask yourself the questions and then move to action straight away!!

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Intelligence is Overrated

by Sam Witteveen on March 18, 2010 · 0 comments

Intelligence often gets in the way.
I remember a time when I was talking to a small business owner in Asia and asking him some questions about his business. He told me that he bought a certain product from his supplier at about 80 cents and then he sold it for $1.60. I congratulated him and said it was very good that he was making a 100% mark up on what he was selling. Very quickly he turned and told me that, no he only had a 50% markup. When I pointed out the he was actually doubling his money and had a 100% markup, he kept pointing out that I was wrong and the markup was only 50%. No matter what i tried to do to convince him otherwise, he disagreed. I began to make the mistake of thinking this guy is stupid and I could feel that I was getting annoyed at his lack of math skills.
As the conversation went on, one of his sons came along and listened and laughed at our conversation. His son had a very good education overseas and quickly agreed with me that it was a 100% markup. Not matter what we did to convince his father, the father though we were both stupid. Eventually I had to laugh at the situation and let it go. As i did that, something occurred to me. He was the one making the money. He was the one taking action and even if he didn’t describe in the correct academic way, he was the one getting the results he wanted. From that day on I realized that being smart had a lot less to do with being successful than I had ever thought.
So if intelligence isn’t the answer, what is?
At school we are taught to value intelligence as if it is gold . I suspect that most of us were taught to value it too much. Time and time again when I meet people who have achieved much success in life (both financial and non financial), their success hasn’t come from a great deal of intelligence, its come from the consistent actions they have taken, not from any large source of intelligence.
Look at most self made millionaires and a common theme that you see in many of them is that left school at a young age. Its true that most of them kept learning in the real world after they left school, but I think you would be hard pressed to find one of them that claims they were one of the smartest people in their industry. Many of them would claim though, that they were the ones who took action when other people stood still out of fear or out knowing better. You often hear them say things such as “I was too dumb to know that it wouldn’t work, so I made it work.”
Action Beats Smart
Time and time again when I meet people who are getting results that they want in life, they aren’t the people who are the smartest in the room. They are the people who implement the fastest. It surprises me so often that its not the people who talk the big talk and ask in depth and complicated questions, its the quiet person who comes up after the seminar and says “these are the 10 things I am doing and these are the results I am getting, what can I do next?”. These are the people that I love to talk to, because I know if I show them one small thing that they can do to improve their business or life, they will implement it. They won’t argue whether it will work for them or not. They won’t argue that their situation or location is different, and that that means that what works for others won’t work for them. They Nike it!! They just do it and more often than not they get the results they wanted. I think we all do this when we are achieving in our life.
Even the smallest bit of action will beat immense knowledge with no follow through.
What action have you taken today?
My challenge to you now is what action have you taken today that will take you closer to your goals. What action is getting the most traction in your life. Don’t let the quest for more knowledge or the self perceived belief that you aren’t intelligent enough stop you from taking small actions that will lead to big results. People (often including myself) are looking for the magic strategy or information that we think we need. Nine times out of ten the strategies we need are out there and easy to find, they don’t require a great deal of knowledge but they do require action.
I continually aim to remind myself of this. Re-starting posting to my blog is an example of action that I have needed to take for a long time, yet not followed through on, because I thought I needed to learn more about writing and blogging (and wordpress and plugins) and getting smarter. I was wrong!!! I needed to be posting and getting it wrong and learning from doing, rather than from reading or listening to others. So here it is my first post. I am sure that they will get better the more that I write but at least now I have taken the action, posted this and even have 3 more posts coming along the pipeline.

I'm not smart enough to be here
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I remember a time when I was talking to a small business owner in Asia and asking him some questions about his business. He told me that he bought a certain product from his supplier at about 80 cents and then he sold it for $1.60. I congratulated him and said it was very good that he was making a 100% mark up on what he was selling. Very quickly he turned and told me that, no he only had a 50% mark up. When I pointed out the he was actually doubling his money and had a 100% mark up, he kept pointing out that I was wrong and the mark up was only 50%. No matter what i tried to do to convince him otherwise, he disagreed. I began to make the mistake of thinking this guy is stupid and I could feel that I was getting annoyed at his lack of math skills.

As the conversation went on, one of his sons came along and listened and laughed at our conversation. His son had a very good education overseas and quickly agreed with me that it was a 100% mark up. Not matter what we did to convince his father, the father though we were both stupid. Eventually I had to laugh at the situation and let it go. As i did that, something occurred to me. He was the one making the money. He was the one taking action and even if he didn’t describe in the correct academic way, he was the one getting the results he wanted. From that day on I realized that being smart had a lot less to do with being successful than I had ever thought.

So if intelligence isn’t the answer, what is?

At school we are taught to value intelligence as if it is gold . I suspect that most of us were taught to value it too much. Time and time again when I meet people who have achieved much success in life (both financial and non financial), their success hasn’t come from a great deal of intelligence, its come from the consistent actions they have taken, not from any large source of intelligence.

Look at most self made millionaires and a common theme that you see in many of them is that left school at a young age. Its true that most of them kept learning in the real world after they left school, but I think you would be hard pressed to find one of them that claims they were one of the smartest people in their industry. Many of them would claim though, that they were the ones who took action when other people stood still out of fear or out knowing better. You often hear them say things such as “I was too dumb to know that it wouldn’t work, so I made it work.”

Action Beats Smart

Time and time again when I meet people who are getting results that they want in life, they aren’t the people who are the smartest in the room. They are the people who implement the fastest. It surprises me so often that its not the people who talk the big talk and ask in depth and complicated questions, its the quiet person who comes up after the seminar and says “these are the 10 things I am doing and these are the results I am getting, what can I do next?”. These are the people that I love to talk to, because I know if I show them one small thing that they can do to improve their business or life, they will implement it. They won’t argue whether it will work for them or not. They won’t argue that their situation or location is different, and that that means that what works for others won’t work for them. They Nike it!! They just do it and more often than not they get the results they wanted. I think we all do this when we are achieving in our life.

Even the smallest bit of action will beat immense knowledge with no follow through.

What action have you taken today?

My challenge to you now is what action have you taken today that will take you closer to your goals. What action is getting the most traction in your life. Don’t let the quest for more knowledge or the self perceived belief that you aren’t intelligent enough stop you from taking small actions that will lead to big results. People (often including myself) are looking for the magic strategy or information that we think we need. Nine times out of ten the strategies we need are out there and easy to find, they don’t require a great deal of knowledge but they do require action.

I continually aim to remind myself of this. Re-starting posting to my blog is an example of action that I have needed to take for a long time, yet not followed through on, because I thought I needed to learn more about writing and blogging (and wordpress and plugins) and getting smarter. I was wrong!!! I needed to be posting and getting it wrong and learning from doing, rather than from reading or listening to others. So here it is my first post. I am sure that they will get better the more that I write but at least now I have taken the action, posted this and even have 3 more posts coming along the pipeline.

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Trying Blindness with food?

Blind Person
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I was recently in Zurich Switzerland and had the good fortune to be taken to The Blindekuh (Blind Cow) Restaurant.

The Blindekuh is a restaurant where everything inside the dinning room is totally pitch black. There is no light in there what so ever. Basically by walking into the dinning room you loose your sense of sight. You become blind. Totally.

At first myself and others at my table had the illusion that we could still see our own hands moving in front of our faces, even though we couldn’t see anything else. I put this to the test by getting a friend’s hand in front of my face (an inch away), only to find that I couldn’t see it at all. It had been a trick that my mind was playing on me by making me think I could see my hands.

The experience for me was amazing. After the few initial minutes of feeling wary and concern about where my hands were and if I was going to knock over my glass etc wore off, I began to relax in to the realization that I no longer had my sight to rely on.

Listening to people’s voices took on a whole new level of awareness. The tables are shared and seat 6-8 people, so our small group of three joined a table by another group of 3 Americans. During the whole lunch I never got to see these people at all, I only had the sense of sound and topics of our conversation from which to evaluate them.

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The Obsession of Passion – What you gives you OCD will often give you your success

Day 43 /365 someone I start drinking for no reason

The Obsession of Passion – What you gives you OCD, will often give you your success.

People often ask me at my seminars, about how they find can find their true passion and often my answer is something along the lines ‘you will know it when you find it, so keep trying new things till you find it’.

While this may often seem a short and succinct reply to a truly in depth question, the simple fact is that most people don’t try many new activities once they become an adult.

Adam Savage is known to many of you as one of the presenters from the Myth-Busters show on the discovery channel. I am a fan of the show and the fundamental ways they test assumptions to see what actually is myth and what is plausible.

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Mind Reading Technology: Cold Reading mind tricks from the future for now

The ultimate mind trick is to accurately read someone’s mind and know what they are thinking, with out any fancy card forces or magic tricks. This is often achieved by frauds and scam artists using a technique called ‘Cold Reading’. When I first learnt NLP I modeled cold reading from two sources and found it to be extremely effective at making people think that you could read their mind and tell their future.

At one party I went to I took out a normal deck of cards and used them as prop while I cold read all my girlfriend’s friends. Later in the night many people came up to me and professed that I had been the best fortune-teller they had ever met (this was in an Asian culture where people going to a fortune teller, was quite common).

For me I did it as fun exercise to check the ability that I had modeled and I deliberately set up an empowering future for all of the people I worked with, yet unfortunately many people use it, to claim to speak to the dead, talk of magic abilities and generally to get large sums of money out of people.

While we can read many of the things in peoples minds (such as they way they are thinking and style of their thinking), we are still unable to read their exact and precise thoughts. UNTIL NOW that is.

As science gets better and better at learning how our brains work we are starting to see some truly amazing milestones in the technology of brain scanning.

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